Disgust – building inner authority and boundaries
Course description
Duration: 16th Sept - 9th Dec 2026
Specialised in including and normalising hypo-states and developing practical methods for working with these states
Relational Trauma therapy has specialised in including and normalising hypo-states and developing practical methods for working with these. As part of this process we discovered the importance of including disgust when working on re-establishing lost boundaries or establishing boundaries for the first time.
Working with disgust is often an aspect of coming from withdrawal into hypo-response or hypo-arousal and back into outgoing energy.
Disgust establishes boundaries from deep within – whereas anger supports boundary-setting that comes out in movements in arms and legs.
When working with anger doesn’t work there is often unregulated or unconscious disgust lying underneath. In working with hypo-patterns including disgust typically comes before anger can be addressed.
Fear and disgust can be entangled. Both are reactions where we pull away from something – but in 2 different ways. In disgust we turn away in dislike. In fear we startle and withdraw. We will relate to how differentiation of these reactions from each other gives a better chance for regulating both of them, and access to choice and action.
In the course we focus on training access to core-disgust – giving it acceptance and value as an inner gatekeeper that signals when our inner space is threatened.
We focus on differentiating core-disgust from interpersonal and moral disgust. Interpersonal and moral disgust typically is held in dominant positioning to other people. Core-disgust in itself is a bodily regulation.
Owning and showing core-disgust can build up a sense of inner authority and dignity – separating from whatever violated us. And owning disgust can make it possible to differentiate from deep within between me and what is not me.